Sarah McKimm shares her advice with a dental nurse who questions whether ambition should extend beyond the current role. She describes loving the work of dental nursing—supporting patients, keeping operations smooth, and belonging to a close-knit team. The job is part-time to accommodate young children, and despite busy and stressful periods, it leaves her fulfilled.
“I’ve been a dental nurse for more than a decade and I genuinely love what I do – supporting patients, keeping things running smoothly, and being part of a close-knit team.”
The issue arises from her husband’s view that the potential could be better utilized by training as a dental hygienist or dental therapist to advance her career. He argues that such a move would improve finances and that she is capable of more, which makes her feel diminished. While she respects hygienists and therapists and recognizes their important work, she has no personal aspiration to pursue that path. Training would require years of study, likely debt, and reduced time with family. More importantly, she is happy as a dental nurse and considers it a skilled, respected profession rather than merely a stepping stone.
“Training would mean years of study and student debt, as well as less time with my family. More importantly, I’m happy where I am. I take pride in being a dental nurse and see it as a skilled, respected profession – not just a stepping stone.”
In summary, the piece portrays a nurse who finds meaning and satisfaction in her current role, and who does not feel compelled to follow a higher-status route just to satisfy external expectations. The author emphasizes personal fulfillment, family considerations, and the value of nursing as a standalone, professional vocation.
Author’s takeaway: Ambition can be personal and context-dependent; fulfillment and professional respect can coexist with contentment in the current role, especially when family balance and long-term well-being are priorities.